The next day, Wednesday, Bernie and I went out to check out the Indian market area (love seeing all the Indian foods and fashions!) then we drove a short way out to a winery.
The winery is quite near the San Diego Wild Animal Park, just in case you visit the area and want to swing by.
Thanksgiving day we drove to Mission Bay, just a few minutes from Laura's condo.
We side tracked off the bay's shoreline to walk through the Hilton Hotel.
Laura tried out a pool side chair; what a great design; it would ward off both sunburns and overly chilling waterfront breezes.
Scenes like this one may explain why I found the long flight to Hawaii have little allure.
The one time I went, I kept feeling like I was still in San Diego!
More confusion: The turkey was not yet cooked, but apparently Christmas had arrived.
Christmas in Sunny Southern California: never quite a Wintry Wonderland event.
The embroidery on a sweatshirt in the hotel gift shop explains why us San Diego natives often feel out of sync with the east coast.
While the folks in the East Coast colonies where busy rebelling against British taxation, the folks on the West Coast were busy planting vineyards and establishing sunny missions under Spanish rule.
It is hard to wrap one's brain around the idea that while Valley Forge was being endured for "our" freedom, other folks were enjoying sunny day amidst flowers and humming birds.
No wonder the Friars never considered pushing east for more land!
Both times the Bird of Paradise bloomed in the slightly chilled air.
We arrived late, and left early that time.
We spent our first two honeymoon nights in one of these bay front rooms.
Bernie graduated from Bible college the day after our wedding; there was a lot of events associated with that ceremony so we didn't get to explore the hotel much at all.
A few years later for an anniversary we booked a weekend there again, and STILL didn't get enjoy the ground much. Some day we really need to go there when lollying around the pool would not require a jacket and long pants to stay warm.
Wonder where that one non conforming bird was heading?
Now this is the really curious part of our little walk down memory lane:
I took one picture and was challenged about doing so by a young Middle Eastern man standing nearby.
I told him I was photographing the scenery and moved on.
(Some women wore full face covering, while others did not. Interesting. How do they feel about each other? Yet as in the picture of the women by the play ground, they seem to mix together just fine.)
I had to think this was a special gathering for everyone, that is was their own kind of Thanksgiving played out in their own cultural style.
I hope I was right.
I wished I didn't find such gatherings to be troubling.
I really wished I didn't.
(Post note: The San Diego Mosque was "home" to a few of the 9/11 bombers, and more and more Middle Easterners have moved to San Diego since that tragic event. One of the terrorists actually lived near to the Middle School that my children had attended. I have a difficult time understanding how these non-English speaking people can afford to live in one of the most expensive cities in America, where, honestly, we could barely afford to live ourselves. Why are they coming to America? I think my concerns are not without both historic and economic merit.)